need help in dealing with this. PLEASE

[ash]

IVE BEEN A MEMBER OF TIG SINCE IT OPENED UP JUST WASNT ON IT ALL LIKE THAT, I KNOW ALL THE MAIN MEMBERS THOUGH AND I NEED SOME UNBIASED STRANGER OPINIONS PLEASE. ITS 5:18 AM IN USA, I GOT A CALL 3 HOURS THAT MY LIL BRO WAS SENT TO THE HOSPITAL, HE IS 18, HE WENT TO HIS FRIENDS COLLEGE TO VISIT, I THINK SOMEONE DRUGED HIM OR HE JUST HAD TO MUCH TO DRINK BUT HE HAS ALCOHOL POISON, PASSED OUT AMBULANCE RUSHED HIM TO THE HOSPITAL, IT WAS ABOUT A HOUR DRIVE TO GO SEE HIM, WHEN I GOT THERE HE WAS BETTER. AND HE THEN SAID SOMETHING THAT SHOCKED ME..... I ASKED WHAT HAPPENED, HE SAID DAD RAPED ME!  I SAID WHAT?!? ( MY DAD IS CURRENTLY IN A HOSPITAL TOO FOR DIFFERENT REASONS)   I MEANT TONIGHT WHAT HAPPENED. HE SAID I DONT REMEMBER I WAS WITH MY FRIENDS AND ITS ALL BLACK FROM THERE. I ASKED ABOUT WHAT HE SAID ABOUT MY DAD AND SAID IT WAS WHEN I WAS A KID I DON'T WANNA TALK ABOUT IT.  SO AFTER HE WAS DISCHARGED DRIVING A HOUR BACK HOME I ASKED AGAIN. HE SAID IT WAS WHEN HE WAS ABOUT 10 AND HE STARTED CRYING. I TOLD HIM FORGET IT DONT THINK ABOUT JUST GO TO SLEEP.   THIS IS WHERE IT GETS TWISTED WHEN I GOT HOME MY MOM WAS WAITING FOR US AND WHEN MY BROTHER WENT TO BED I TOLD HER WHAT HE TOLD ME ABOUT MY FATHER RAPING HIM. SHE STARTED CRYING AND SAID NO NOT HIM. I ASKED WHAT SHE MEANT SHE SAID MY OLDER SISTER HAD TOLD MY MOM THAT HE RAPED HER TOO BUT MY MOM NEVER BELIEVED IT, THOUGHT MY SISTER WAS USING IT AS A EXCUSE FOR WHY SHE IS THE WAY SHE IS. MY SISTER IS 24 NOW, SHE CLAIMS HE RAPED HER WHEN SHE WAS 15.... I HAVE ANOTHER SISTER THATS MARRIED WITH KIDS THAT SHE BRINGS OVER TO SEE THERE GRANDPA SHE IS 27.   I AM THE OLDEST MALE AND I AM 22, MY FATHER NEVER TRIED ANYTHING WITH ME....IM IN SHOCK TONIGHT. AND DONT WANNA RUIN MY SISTER OR BROTHER ANY WORSE BY GOIN TO COPS AND MAKING IT PUBLIC, BUT GOTTA DO SOMETHING ABOUT MY DEAD BEAT OF A DAD.

[Keyser v Ricky]

@DC thats the realest advise someone couldve given! 

[Chuck92]

thats some deep shit bro. haven't experienced  none of of myself so it's a tough choice. if i were u i would confront him with it, if he confesses,, that him to court, if not stay out of contact with him. 

[ash]

i have strongly considered goin to police, but im afraid of it goin publicly to the local community and people my family knows and it will hurt my brother and sister even more and drive them to hurt themselves.  

[ash]

@scareface you may consider it pussy shit, but its my way of emotionally lettin it out, it may be hard to understand until it happens to your family but i have no one to talk to this about, and i understand im alone, but by me comin on here and just typing my feelings out it helps a little, as hard as that is for you to understand.

[Liam]

i feel you coming on here an lettin it out cuz where else have you got to go? but i can tell your not gonna beat your own pops up an have these people sayin they would wouldnt actually do it.. so i say just remove him from your life, kick him out the house and never have any contact with him again. fuck the police they aint gonna do shit you just need to block him out and never have any contact with him again.

[John]

hire a hitmen. 5 grand will put him in a body bag so god can deal with it. naaa but on the real thats fucked up you shhould just confront him about it and take it from there

[2yeskt7p0lrvx]

You think we can help? You think thats how the world works you tell me your problems i tell you mine and the and everything is good? If things worked liked that the world would be a peacefully place but its not. Deal with your own problems telling us aint gonna do shit for you. You want things done in your life you have to do it yourself you wanna let out your feelings go smoke a bowl, go watch tv but dont tell us your business if any of us had any solutions the world would be a better place but its for you to decide what you want to do not us. Thats the problem with you, you let emotions interfere with you and block your judgement get rid of any feelings/emotions you have and you'll see exactly where im coming from and you'll see how much things are clearer.

[I am Legend]

We might not possibly help him out Phisically but perhaps mentally. Obviously it's a bigger deal to him than what imagined. Let's not forget TIG is a community that brought us all here because in one shape of form we relate to Game & feel the music and what comes with the struggles. We're no fucking therapist but if this site is the last/Only place to vent than so be it. Niggas on google ask for advice on the internet all the time even dumb ass questions.
I however RESPECT your Logic but you're seeing it Black & White instead of Shades of Grey an for somebody "Studying to become a Lawyer" you sound more like a DIstric Attorney judging this mans Emotion.